紐約時報刊載了一篇非常有趣的文章:十五則婚前不能不問的問題!
 
1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?
考慮是不是應該有小孩? 如果答案是”YES ”的話,誰是將來主要負責照顧小孩的人?
@看來照顧小孩是忙碌的上班族需要面對 的問題,如果沒時間照顧小孩,沒有給他良好的教育,不如不要生好了><”
 
2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?
是不是清楚對方的財務狀況還有 目標以及共同支出跟儲蓄的想法?
 
3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?
是不是曾經討論過如何維持這個家庭,以及這個家庭的雜 務(瑣碎的事情),將由誰來管理? 沒有人想要做家事,真是千古不變...
 
4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?

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